as little as possible about yourself.
busy with your own affairs.
interfere in the affairs of others.
small irritations with good humor.
dwell on the faults of others.
censures even if unmerited.
in to the will of others. [But never compromise God’s will.]
insults and injuries.
Accept contempt, being forgotten and disregarded.
courteous and delicate even when provoked by someone.
not seek to be admired and loved.
not protect yourself behind your own dignity.
in, in discussions, even when you are right.
Choose always the more difficult task.